It’s incredible. It’s a wave of energy. And it’s ongoing. They’re all marching for the same goal. You see a march like this and you’re like, oh, OK, I’m not living in hell.
I’m part of this groundbreaking TV show. I’m here spreading a dance form created by a community, a culture. It’s marching for justice. I’m not trans, so for me, it’s: How can I support? What can I do? Who am I checking in on? Those are the questions that circle my head.
How long have you had your kids?
Two, three years. I feel like it’s shaped me to be my best self. For me, having my children is to see what they’re going through. I can relate: Like picking and choosing when to be your authentic self, when to be queer, what time of the day you can put on heels so your aunt or your mom might not see it and question it. I went through all of that.
You used to be a member of the House of Ninja. When did you join Xtravaganza?
Last summer. That’s all. Isn’t that crazy? It was, I think, four years as a Ninja.
Did “Pose” influence that decision?
It did a lot, to be honest. It influenced me wanting to leave Ninja. It influenced me being a parent. Because I was like, oh my god, why don’t I feel the sense of family? Why do I not have any trans sisters in this house? I was like, what the hell is going on? Houses were built by trans women. At Xtravaganza, we have so many trans people. I feel they make it feel like a house.
Did you have a connection there?
I thought about it after the passing of Hector Xtrava. In the last conversation I had with him, I was like, “I don’t know what to do with ballroom, I feel so lost.” He was like, “What other work are you doing? How are you putting yourself in the forefront now that you are one of the faces to keep pushing this culture?” I really wanted a join to continue his memory.