ARE you a short girl who loves a tall guy? Well, you may be in luck. A recent study has claimed that shorter women who couple up with much taller men have the happiest relationships - and it's all down to evolution. This study has found that there is an unexpected scientific correlation between a husband's stature and his wife's happiness. Researchers found that out of almost 4, Indonesian couples that took part in the survey, the happiest were those with the greatest height difference.
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Dating a shorter guy can make some women feel a little insecure. If you're one of those women, you may need to examine your priorities when dating a shorter guy. You may also need to focus on what you do like about him his personality and good looks , rather than what you may not like about him his height. Cher Gopman. Does height matter? When you're in a committed relationship, height doesn't matter because you've already passed each other's tests. If you're about to start dating someone shorter than you, height still doesn't matter because once you get to know him better, you might fall for his personality. If you are a tall girl who is dating a short guy, do your best not to be insecure about your height by reminding yourself that being taller than a guy doesn't mean you're too big or any less feminine. You should also focus on the positives of dating a shorter guy, such as how easy it is to kiss him without having to strain to reach him.
There is no denying that guys get a kick out of the chance to feel powerful in a relationship. If facts are to be believed, tall girls exude a personality of enhanced confidence and dominance, which can prove to be intimidating to guys. Being in a relationship with a short girl helps feed the male ego, leaving him to feel superior. Guys would like to think of themselves as knights in shining armors who comes to the rescue of their partners. Guys immensely enjoy the dependence that girls have on them, further making them feel masculine and validating their feelings of supremacy. Tall girls are however perceived by guys as ones with strong personalities, that might overshadow their identity as the alpha male in the relationship. This constant psychological need to feel needed and the battle to power and dominion might justify why they like short girls more.
Pretty much everyone you meet — even random people on the street — make comments on your height difference. Sometimes you have to call him over to reach things for you, which kind of makes you feel like a little kid. Probably a joke about not being able to get the two of you in the frame. Sometimes, he hangs out with other tall friends and when they talk in a group, you kind of feel like a little kid in a circle of adults. You sometimes feel like you should be exercising your ability to wear ridiculously high heels, even though you just want to wear flats. Traveling in the backs of cars and on planes means a ton of discomfort for him, and you wish you could give him some of your legroom just for him not to suffer. You often underestimate just how much he can eat, and can expect him to finish your plates when you go out even if you were planning on taking it home! Wearing his clothes becomes absolutely hilarious on you. Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday.