When it comes to masturbation, there can be just as much play involved as there is when it comes to sex with a partner, so you should never be afraid to experiment — after all, masturbation has so many health benefits. So it's time to get in the solo sex mood, and that all starts with your mind. To get that big sexy brain on board, start exploring your fantasies and finding new mental triggers that can fuel your self-love sessions. So, in the spirit of National Masturbation Month though you can — and totally should — celebrate solo sex year-round , it's time for 28 ways to up your masturbation game. That's right, I know, it seems like a lot.
Female masturbation is often seen as a taboo subject. Despite research showing that women masturbate as frequently as men, it's still not a topic that all females openly discuss. The Swedes have even created a new term for female masturbation in an attempt to stop women from being put off talking about the topic by the usual male-associated words. We spoke to women about their own experiences of masturbation and got some expert tips on how to make things work for you, including from Strawberry Siren, former Miss Burlesque Australia and the creator of the Pussy Play Masterclass, a workshop on the art of playing with yourself. Understanding the different bits of your body is the first step towards successful stimulation. My advice would be to explore, get to know what things feel like, and if it feels good, keep going! To help us on our quest to become more familiar with our anatomy, Lisa has provided us with simple, straightforward definitions for some of our bodily bits from her book Love Your Lady Landscape. It includes the clitoris, labia lips, urethra and entrance to the vagina, and its opening is almond shaped.
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The idea of masturbating in front of someone else can, understandably, be a little bit daunting. It can make you feel vulnerable, and maybe even a little bit silly or shameful. But, there's nothing to be ashamed of - and it can also build intimacy and connection between you and a sexual partner. If you masturbate in front of someone, not only is it super hot for them, but you can show them how you liked to be touched. These nine people got real about why they either like being watched, or get off on watching their partner masturbate. Some even love engaging in a spot of mutual masturbation every now and then I find it amazingly hot and extremely sexy to see him doing that.
Many of us masturbate. When I first bought my beloved Doxy mains-powered wand vibrator which rumbles with more strength than the belly of a dragon on hunger strike — I used it so much that I bruised my cooze. While travelling with friends in South East Asia, I pretended to have food poisoning just so I could spend an uninterrupted half-hour self-pleasuring in the hotel bathroom. You might stroke and caress each other as well, but the main aim of the game is to get yourself off, yourself. There is no one better qualified than you to show your lover how you like to be touched. A mutual masturbation sesh is the perfect tutorial for you both. Wearing a blindfold can be brilliantly helpful, too. When it comes to STI risk, mutual masturbation is wayyyyy less dicey than penetration, or sexual touching. Or, if you're having mouth-to-vulva oral sex, using a dental dam will stop the transmission of STIs.